Girl Talk

Ever since I was little, having girl friends was really important to me.

Getting that female perspective seemed natural, talking about girly things seemed fun, and hearing "you're a guy, you wouldn't get it" was always ironic. I seemed to be able to bear conversations on nail polish colors, struggles in tight skirts, dilemmas of shoe sizes and clothing fits. Some topics were never mentioned - s.e.x. and periods.

Even after meeting my wife, there have always been a few women friends in my life that compliment a part of me that guy friends wouldn't understand, and even my wife doesn't understand. At times, my wife naturally has had trouble understanding why I have such close friendships with these other women.

This week, after an interesting encounter while shopping (see my other post on that), I finally realized that I have no trouble talking to women.

I also realized that I'm missing those close girl friends since I've let myself drift away from making new girl friends and ignored the reality that girl friends too have drifted away.

Being on crossdressheaven.com helps fill that need for girl talk. And this week I realized that I can still make new girl friends to go shopping with, have lunch with, and just do girly stuff with!