Ever since I was little, having girl friends was really important to me.
Getting
that female perspective seemed natural, talking about girly things
seemed fun, and hearing "you're a guy, you wouldn't get it" was always
ironic. I seemed to be able to bear conversations on nail polish colors,
struggles in tight skirts, dilemmas of shoe sizes and clothing fits.
Some topics were never mentioned - s.e.x. and periods.
Even after meeting my wife, there have always been a few women
friends in my life that compliment a part of me that guy friends
wouldn't understand, and even my wife doesn't understand. At times, my
wife naturally has had trouble understanding why I have such close
friendships with these other women.
This
week, after an interesting encounter while shopping (see my other post
on that), I finally realized that I have no trouble talking to women.
I
also realized that I'm missing those close girl friends since I've let
myself drift away from making new girl friends and ignored the reality
that girl friends too have drifted away.
Being
on crossdressheaven.com helps fill that need for girl talk. And this week I
realized that I can still make new girl friends to go shopping with,
have lunch with, and just do girly stuff with!
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